By Crèche Day School
Have you ever noticed your little one clinging to you when you try to drop them off at school or leave them with a babysitter? That's because they might be experiencing childcare separation anxiety, which is completely normal for children between 6 months and 3 years of age. But don't worry, as your child grows and develops object permanence, they'll become more comfortable with separations. To help ease their anxiety, it's important to gradually expose them to short separations, build trust, and provide plenty of reassurance. With a little patience and understanding, you can help your child feel more confident and secure when it comes to spending time apart from you.
Take your child for a visit to the center or classroom before the first day. Familiarize them with the environment, introduce them to the caregivers, and show them where they will be spending their time.
Set a routine leading up to your child’s first day. This helps children feel secure, knowing what to expect. Include activities like reading a book, playing a specific game, or singing a particular song.
Discuss school in a positive light. Emphasize the fun activities, new friends, and exciting things they will learn. Avoid expressing any anxiety you may have, as children often pick up on their parents' emotions.
Allow your child to bring a comfort object or familiar item, such as a favorite soft toy or blanket. Having something familiar can provide a sense of security in a new environment.
Establish a short and sweet goodbye ritual. This could be a special handshake, a hug, or a quick, reassuring phrase. Keep it consistent to create a sense of predictability.
Children can sense their parents' emotions. Stay calm and confident during drop-off. If you appear anxious or uncertain, your child may become more anxious as well.
When possible, start with short sessions and gradually increase the time your child spends at school. This helps them acclimate to the new environment without feeling overwhelmed.
Communicate openly with your child’s teachers. Share information about your child's personality, habits, and any specific needs they may have. Establishing a positive relationship with the caregivers can help ease the transition.
Acknowledge and celebrate small achievements during their time at school. This could be making a new friend, participating in an activity, or trying something new. Positive reinforcement can boost your child's confidence.
Remember that every child is unique, and the adjustment period may vary. Patience and ongoing communication with both your child and our team are key components in making the transition smoother.
